It can be confusing to be a guy out there navigating the treacherous waters of the dating scene. Some women do send out mixed signals. No doubt about it. And some guys are a bit blinded by their desires. Still, to protect yourself, as well as the women you're dating. I want you to consider the following points before your relationships progress to the sexual stage:
If your date is sending a mixed message, assume "maybe" means no.
You don't want to make love to someone who is unsure about making love to you. Talk about it. Clarify how she feels. Proceed only when both of you are ready.
Assuming you both want the same amount of intimacy at exactly the same moment is a mistake.
Your date may be interested in sexual contact other than intercourse. I know it's hard to do, but it's important to continuously check on each other's desires rather then just making convenient or self-serving assumptions that may be very dangerous.
A woman who says "No" to sex is not necessarily saying "no" to you as a person.
She may just want to pursue being physical more slowly.
Just because she's in your room doesn't mean she wants to be in your bed.
Your size and physical presence can be intimidating to a woman.
If she doesn't struggle it may be because she feels too afraid.
Intoxication(either yours or hers) is not a legal or moral defense for rape.
No matter what has transpired, "No" means "Stop now - go no further."
That's not only the moral definition, but the legal definition as well. I don't care what's happened up to this point.
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