Assumptions about sexual responsibility can be literally fatal and at best, embarrassing. So talk about what you're about to do and what it means to both of you. If this conversation seems to get in the way of spontaneity, talk about it when both of you are dressed, sober, and maybe even in public.
Basically don't assume anything at any time if you don't absolutely have to. As my used car salesmen taught me when I was writing my dissertation, "Never assume. It make an ass of you and me" (Get it? ass you, me). You wouldn't assume a gun wasn't loaded before you pulled the trigger (enough Freudian imagery there for us all?).
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