Faking interest or orgasms is a short term solution to a long term problem (and simultaneous orgasm is a myth of romance novals and Hollywood). If you're faking it, you're giving out misleading information. Nothing will ever change or get better, and sooner or later you'll be found out, and the if you'll-lie-about-something-as-this-what-else-will-you-lie-about? question rears its ugly head. Sex is about intimacy, and intimacy is about trust, and trust is about integrity, and integrity is about honesty. And most of us aren't all that great at acting. (Remember how your mom always knew when you are lying? Probably hasn't changed all that much.)
If you're enjoying the sex, enjoy it honestly; if it's not working for you, figure out what you can do differently or what you can instruct your partner (gently and tactfully) to do differently.
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