Know the song about wanting a man with a slow hand (and we're not talking poker here)? Well, almost everything about sex are intimacy can be improved if it's slowed down and savored. Anticipation is heady stuff, and our most erogenous zone is the gray matter between our ears. If you're not convinced that going slow has much to recommend it. think about the difference between gobbing a hamburger at a fast food restaurant and dining out. You get the point.
Make sure you know what you're doing and what you want. I know sex wasn't designed to be thoughtful: It's an urgent, fast response, but we're not animals at the mercy of our hormones. We've got that big, fancy cortex on top of all our other organs for a reason.
Not only is it a good idea to go slowly in launching the initial sexual encounter, but once you're sexual, going slowly is a great turn-on (think of the good old days, when waiting until you were married made the wedding, the wedding night, and sex very special). Even if you decide to be sexual, the longer you wait and the longer you take, the happier, in general, both of you will be.
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