I'm absolutely sure that no one who has the good sense to read this blog would ever by tacky enough to compare sex partners out loud, not to a friend, not to a locker room acquaintance, and certainly not to a current date. (If you are tacky enough to do this, please don't tell me about it - I definitely don't want to think of you like that - and clean up your ect.)
Equally importantly, don't compare partners in your own mind. Then was then; now is now. Some folks have a great backhand, some dance well, and some tell a great joke. All of us want to be loved for the unique creature that each one of us is. If you don't want to be compared, don't compare. Love isn't a race to be won; It's not a competition; It's an experience to be savoured and nurtured and enjoyed. So no check lists please. You'll cheat yourself, big time.
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